NO RED ROSES FOR ME !

You know this world would be such a great place if people dared to raise their voice with words of kindness. You see, i've been having it quite rough for quite some time and i think it's time to change it. February is a great month to start! So your missions this month is to give at least twice a week a compliment to 5 different people. You think you can do it? I've already begun :) 


What is it most people think of when they hear "February"? Exactly Valentines Day. I shiver when i think of every woman getting the attention they always wished for from their "love" for just this one day when the other 364 days are "ordinary" and insignificant. Personally i couldn't do that. I want real-love-kisses-cuddles-flowers-chocolate-love-love-love 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Of course, i'll return the love 10-fold and make sure he feels like a king. 

Love, isn't a red rose, love isn't holding hands, love is with someone, for someone, to someone. 
It's NEVER about you. So when you love, don't love because of yourself but because of the other one. It's the unselfish love that survives.

I want to encourage women to see Valentines as just another normal day. Make things spicy with your love for instance after work, whisper sweet nothings. Tell him/her what you love about him/her. Tell them something about yourself that you love. Keep the spark between you two and tease each other! Why wait for one day to create the perfect romantic memory with what ever your imagination takes you? I suggest you go on a date now, like today or if it's night call him/her and talk, make plans and follow through. Do something if you truly believe you and your love are worth a world of your own. 

This became a rather personal entry but i hope the message got through :)

Have a lovely day my friends,
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