the secret to
gaining trust?
Be willing to
give your trust
to other people
first.
Sunday, April 3, 2011
~ Victor Hugo ~
The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that
we are loved - loved for ourselves, or rather,
loved in spite of ourselves.
~ Victor Hugo ~
the one I wanna spend the rest of my life with
Will you marry me?
60 things most girls don't know
- Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them! (oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 6 guys..you're a HOE)
- "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.
- Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
- Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.
- Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
- Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.
- Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.
- A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
- Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.
- Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.
- Guys get jealous easily.
- Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.
- Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh... never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
- Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
- Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.
- Girls are guys' weaknesses.
- Guys are very open about themselves.
- It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.
- Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
- If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
- A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
- Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
- Guys will brag about anything. [lmao]
- Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.
- No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.
- Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
- Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.
- Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
- Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.
- Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.
- Try to be as straightforward as possible.
- If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
- If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.
- When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
- When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
- Guys don't really have final decisions.
- If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.
- If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.
- When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.
- When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.
- Guys like femininity not feebleness.
- Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. [lmaoxD]
- A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
- Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
- Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.
- Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
- Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.
- If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.
- Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
- A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.
- No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.
- Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn't mean he represents ALL of us.
- We don't like girls who are too skinny.
- We love it when girls talk about there boobs.
- Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like whether it's a one time deal or not ....
- Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unnoticeable tell them about yours...
- When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually
- Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..
- Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...
- Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.
- When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
straight from my Twitter account:
Something Happened To me
*Once Upon a Time*
*Something Happened To me*
*It was the Sweetest Thing*
*That ever could be*
*It was a Fantasy*
*A dream Come True*
*It was the Day i Met You*
Don't ever be afraid to come to me
Don't ever be afraid to come to me and cry .Don't ever hesitate to look me in the eye.Don't ever be afraid to tell me how you feel. Remember you're my girl and we gotta keep it real
Roses are red
Roses are red
Violets are blue,
Are you happy
with me because
I know I'm happy with you.
Violets are blue,
Are you happy
with me because
I know I'm happy with you.
you know what's special?
If you love someone that means you have a good heart. If someone loves you that's flattering. If your love someone and they love you back thats special!
..until you prove it...
you can say
you love me
but until you
prove it the
words mean
nothing to me.
~A.E.Housman~
Oh when I was in love with you, Then I was clean and brave,
And miles around the wonder grew
How well did I behave.
And now the fancy passes by,
And nothing will remain,
And miles around they'll say that
I Am quite myself again.
~A.E.Housman~
Passion
Passion makes the old medicine new:
Passion lops off the bough of weariness.
Passion is the elixir that renews:
how can there be weariness
when passion is present?
Oh, don't sigh heavily from fatigue:
seek passion, seek passion, seek passion!
~Cinderella~
"Do you love me because I am beautiful,
or am I beautiful because you love me?"
~Cinderella~
~Robert Browning~
"It doesn't matter who you love, or how you love, but that you love"
~Robert Browning~
E.E Cummings~ I carry you
i carry it in my heart and i'm never without it.
anywhere i go, you go, my dear.
and whatever is done, by only me, is your doing, my darling.
i fear no fear for you are my fate, my sweet.
i want no world for beautiful, you are my world my true.
it's you or whatever a moon has always meant,
and whatever a sun will always sing is you.
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the trree called life
which grows higher and higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide
and this is the wonder that is keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart,
i carry it in my heart.
holding on
"Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go"
~Herman Hesse~
A Lesson in Life
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
To My Valentine
Let's take a vacation
From the sordid ramifications
On the television Station.
I`ll treat you royal
My passions boil.
We'll be mysterious.
I yearn delirious!
I`ll make good food to eat.
And for dessert
A special treat.
Loving Kisses,
Hot and Sweet.
We'll play awhile and smile.
~by Nicole~
~ Zelda Fitzgerald ~
"Nobody, not even poets, Has ever measured,
How much the heart can hold."
~ Zelda Fitzgerald ~
Another man's folly
One life gone, 2 people dead !
A mother is devastated, she is howling with pain, yelling all she can in that dark and dingy corner of her four by four kholi. There was nobody to hear her yell and not a soul to pacify her, because outside her shack is a long winding lonely road. There was no existence of mankind for miles and miles ahead. The wind was at rest, the leaves didn't rustle and no resonance of a barking dog, silence filled the air. Loneliness was already killing her, but no one knows what made her cry?Losing something you love with all your heart isn’t really the grief you can ever overcome. Radha lost her baby. Her only means to live. She saw her child getting crushed under a car in front of her own eyes. Blood was all over and the accident was terrible. One lonely night, she was walking down the street to get a breath of fresh air with her child cuddled tight in her arms. She walked a long time till she saw the face of mankind (in the evilest form).
The whole time she walked with her child in her arms the only thing that worried her was Aryans (her son’s) future. What kind of a person will he be? Will he make me proud? How much light is life going to bring in his existence? She was imagining and feeling every day of the Child's growth, and what she had in store for him. But who knows what’s in store for us tomorrow, life can change in the splits of a second. Talk about destiny, all those dreams hopes and expectations were snatched away from her in an instant. Her smiles were frowns and her faith just crumbled, like a deal soul in a living, rather breathing body.
This is how it happened…. On that abandoned road, were a few streetlights barely sufficient? There was this one light that was visible from a distance, but as it came closer it got brighter and brighter. That light changed Radha's life into darkness forever. A speeding car came down that road, as if the driver had jammed the accelerator, cutting across the wind. He came at a speed of 110 km/h throwing beer bottles out of his half open window. He was definitely drunk, the speed took everything in its path. Just then, there was a loud cry, and silence set in again. The cry of a baby and no sight of a child.
Ironically the mother wasn't hurt, not a scratch on a body, not a bruise on her arm. She opened her eyes and didn't she Aryan, her vision was blur. After a few minutes when her sight cleared up she looked all over frantically for her baby, but alas! There was nothing. Just then she noticed something about then feet away it was blood draining into the gutter’s, and pieces of minced flesh, laying there saying so much without saying anything at all. The blood of her baby, the child who hadn’t even seen life, He paid the price for another man’s folly. The same little child whose future was just being planned. Simple, don’t drink and drive. You could take a life, but kill a number of people.
~By Nisha Malhotra~
a quiz you really don't have to take to understand the point
You don't actually have to take the quiz. Just read straight through, and you'll get the point, an awesome one. .....
Take this quiz:
1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.
3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America contest.
4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.
5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor actress.
6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series winners.
How did you do?
The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.
Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:
1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
4. Think of a few people who have made you feel, appreciated and special.
5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.
6. Name half a dozen heroes whose stories have inspired you. Easier?
The lesson: The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care. Pass this on to those people who have made a difference in your life.
PPF
Past is experience, Present is experiment. Future is expectation!!! Use your experience in your experiments to get your expectations.
Wish you a happy life.
A friend from above
I prayed for you before we met,
Not knowing who you'd be.
I asked the Lord to send a friend.
One chosen just for me.
I asked that they'd be Godly,
With wisdom of His ways.
A friend to help and guide me
I the troubles of these days.
So often in life, we need someone
To listen while we talk.
Someone who will not condemn or judge,
But encourage us as we walk.
The narrow road we choose to follow
May sometimes make us stumble.
But to have a friend to catch our fall,
Teaches us to be humble.
When I asked the Lord to send a friend,
Though many came and went.
He gave much more than I ever asked,
For you are the friend He sent.
~ FRIENDS ~
As we walk our path of life,
We meet people everyday.
Most are simply met by chance.
But, some are sent our way.
These become special friends
Whose bond we can't explain;
The ones who understand us
And share our joy and pain.
Their love contains no boundaries.
So, even we are apart.
Their presence enhances us
With a warmth felt in the heart.
This love becomes a passageway,
When even the miles disappear.
And so, these friends, God sends our way,
Remain forever near.
Author Lisa Pelzer Vetter
That's Good Life !
Love yourself, Flirt with your understanding, Romance with your dreams, Get engaged with simplicity, Marry genuineness, Divorce the egos... That's Good Life...
Life is like a 3 pages book.
Life is like a 3 pages book.
2 pages are already written by God.
First Page: Birth and Last Page: Death
The Centre Page: Empty.
So fill it with:
2 pages are already written by God.
First Page: Birth and Last Page: Death
The Centre Page: Empty.
So fill it with:
smile,
love,
faith
and the most important is `Saas(breath) Saas(breath) Simro(meditate) Gobind(God)`
= (With each breath of your body meditate upon God).
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