remember that on the bad days.

“If you love her, remember that on the bad days.”

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Just remember that

— Cassandra Clare, Clockwork Prince

“I could not tell you if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with you.”

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“Remember me when the morning light kisses your eyelids at 6 in the morning. Allow my lingering presence to wake up your sleepy senses. Remember me when the sky is a dark hue of melancholy and anger all at once. Let me be your storms that calm your shivering bones and agitate your already thundering heart. Remember me when the wind breezes between the spaces your fingers and the strands of your hair. Allow me to whisper faint memories into your ears and on your skin. Remember me when the noise around you becomes overwhelming and you need room to breathe. Let me be your shallow or deep inhales, your shots of vodka, and your overplayed songs. Remember me when the evening darkness hides your nightfall shadows and covers you in a blanket of moonlight. Allow my presence to linger behind your eyelids, coursing my way into your mind and wrapping you in a duvet of memories.”

— Anne Carson

“You remember too much, my mother said to me recently.
Why hold onto all that?” And I said, “where can I put it down?”

the best way to forget someone

“The best way 

to forget someone 

is to 

start 

remembering 

yourself”

— Neil Gaiman

“There are a hundred things she has tried to chase away the things she won’t remember and that she can’t even let herself think about because that’s when the birds scream and the worms crawl and somewhere in her mind it’s always raining a slow and endless drizzle.
You will hear that she has left the country, that there was a gift she wanted you to have, but it is lost before it reaches you. Late one night the telephone will sign, and a voice that might be hers will say something that you cannot interpret before the connection crackles and is broken.

Several years later, from a taxi, you will see someone in a doorway who looks like her, but she will be gone by the time you persuade the driver to stop. You will never see her again.

Whenever it rains you will think of her.”

— Nick Miller

“Remember it? The setting of magical summers. Wrinkled fingers and toes meant a long day filled with underwater adventures. The place where accomplishment was born: swimming the entire length of the pool without coming up for air. Gasp. Yes, made it! Gasp. The place that gave you the most intense hunger pains you’d ever known. A big plate of food never tasted so good. Seconds? Yes, please. OK, you’re ready to go back in the pool now. You don’t want to wait fifteen minutes for your food to digest. Do I have to, Mom? Fine. Fifteen minutes go by too slow—much slower than the four hours you’ve already been playing in the pool. Back in! Finally. Games. Marco Polo. Colors. No, sun, don’t go away! You need the light. After sunset, the darkness comes, and the darkness transforms the pool into a terrifying black sea swarming with sharks and monsters. How did they get in there? Through the drain, of course. Time to get out and back on land where it’s safe. Brrr! Shivers. You wrap yourself in that huge, soft beach towel. That feels good. Warmth. The couch looks comfortable. Cartoons are on TV. But your energy is gone. The pool took it from you. Your eyelids are heavy… way too heavy. Sleep. The best sleep.”

when you randomly remember a good time with someone you're no longer close to

and you wonder if they ever think about you anymore.

— 14 things to remember in a relationship

1. Kiss like you mean it.
   
2. Remember their birthday, every year.
   
3. Make them feel special, even on a monday night with a forecast of rain.
   
4. Befriend their Mom, she will tell you stories that no one else can.
   
5. Order each other food at restaurants, just to try something new.
   
6. Shower together, you may learn to love your body, by seeing the desire and passion in your partners eyes.
   
7. Leave notes when you go out for the day, it will make you feel safe.
   
8. Watch the Breakfast Club, and pump up your fist in the end, even if it only happens once.
   
9. Care for each other when sick, soup is the easiest thing to make.
   
10. Make chocolate covered strawberries in summer simply because you can.
    
11. Go fishing with their Dad, and listen to what he has to say, even if he may have trouble saying it.
    
12. Give each other little presents, even if its just a rose on Friday the 13th.
    
13. Get angry, but forgive.
    
14. Love, love with all you’ve got.

…And please remember

“…And please remember that you were beautiful before he told you that you were.”

remember the three L’s

“My mom always told me to remember the three L’s: live, laugh, and love. She always asked me which was most important and I would say live because if you don’t live you can’t laugh and love. However, she was always there to correct me and tell me love was the most important because if you never find love, you’ll never fully laugh and never completely understand the meaning of living with the one you love.”

i believe that when you know how to physically touch a girl,

i believe that when you know how to physically touch a girl, is when you really have her. hand placement and the use of your hands is everything, remember that gentlemen.

There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life,

There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them. Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle you will find a stronger sense of who you are. So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be. Because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you.
Take life one day at a time. it is not how fast we move or how long we live, it’s how we cherish every moment of our life. it is how we treasure every memories that we are creating each day, it is how you cope and win each day, it is how you show every day how wonderful person you are.

The secret to being happy is accepting where you are in life and making the most out of everyday. :)

do you?

when you remember the first time he said 

you were beautiful, and you really believed it.

Somewhere, there’s someone

“Somewhere, there’s someone who dreams of your smile, and finds in your presence that life is worth while, so when you’re lonely, remember it’s true, somebody somewhere is thinking of you.”

— Carlos Ruiz Zafón

“We exist as long as somebody remembers us.”

Certainty and friends.

— Haruki Murakami, Kafka on the Shore

“I want you to remember me. 

If you remember me, then I don’t care if everybody else forgets.”