Take a step back. Look at yourself.

Take a step back. Look at yourself. You are human. You are beautiful. you are so beautiful.

When you find closure

“When you find closure, you will feel so free. Trust me, you won’t regret it.”

Don't regret.

“Don’t ever regret anything 

because regretting means 

wanting to forget every moment. 

Every moment is what makes you who you are today, 

every moment spent in regret is a moment wasted. 

Don’t waste your moments in life, 

you never know when you’ll stop waking up.”

Never regret something

Somehow i will not regret you

but i will slowly _ _ _ _ _ _  you. 

Never put off saying “I love you” as long as you sincerely mean it

trusting you.

Don't regret anything you do, cause in the end it makes you who you are

People with stronger friendships have the 

greater ability to communicate strictly 

through facial expressions.

— Anonymous

“Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right and forget the ones who don’t. Remember, too, that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. No-one said it would be easy. They only said it would be worth it - and it is!”

Live with no excuses, love with no regrets.

I guess a big part of growing up is dealing with regret.

I guess a big part of growing up is dealing with regret. 

Swallowing your pride. There are some things in life you can't

 go back and change, no matter how much you want to.

but no matter how long

it takes one minute 

to like someone, 

a month to love, 

forever to forget, 

but no matter how long 

you wait or how hard 

you try there is no 

reason to regret.

— Libba Bray

“We all do things we desperately wish we could undo. Those regrets just become part of who we are … To spend time trying to change that, well, it’s like chasing clouds.”

In the end

In the end we only regret the chances we didn't 

take,the relationships we were afraid to have and the 

decisions we waited too long to make.

if you read this i love you.. .

if you love him, tell him, don't wait to regret it later 

Love is sometimes

Love is sometimes denied, sometimes lost, sometimes unrecognised, but in the end always found with no regrets, forever valued and kept treasured...

Always tell someone how you feel,

Always tell someone how you feel, 

even if it's hard, 

because opportunities are lost in the blink of an eye, 

but regret can last for a lifetime.

and walk away

if there is anything i want to regret

then its kissing his lips and walk away

have you?

Appreciate your boyfriend or girlfriend

Even if at times they drive you crazy, be thankful for them. They’re doing their job by keeping you happy and loving you endlessly regardless of your flaws. You both picked each other for a reason and ended up together for a reason. So think about what they have done for you before you say something you might regret.

Top Five Regrets of the Dying

A nurse has recorded the most common regrets of the dying, and among the top ones is ‘I wish I hadn’t worked so hard’. What would your biggest regret be if this was your last day of life?

A palliative nurse has recorded the top five regrets of the dying. Photograph: Montgomery Martin/Alamy

There was no mention of more sex or bungee jumps. A palliative nurse who has counselled the dying in their last days has revealed the most common regrets we have at the end of our lives. And among the top, from men in particular, is ‘I wish I hadn’t worked so hard’.

Bronnie Ware is an Australian nurse who spent several years working in palliative care, caring for patients in the last 12 weeks of their lives. She recorded their dying epiphanies in a blog called Inspiration and Chai, which gathered so much attention that she put her observations into a book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.

Ware writes of the phenomenal clarity of vision that people gain at the end of their lives, and how we might learn from their wisdom. “When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently,” she says, “common themes surfaced again and again.”

Here are the top five regrets of the dying, as witnessed by Ware:
1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.“This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.”

2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.“This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.”

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.“Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.”

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.“Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.”

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.“This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.”

What’s your greatest regret so far, and what will you set out to achieve or change before you die?

Source: http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2012/feb/01/top-five-regrets-of-the-dying