The reasons why girls talk to more guys then girls.

Guys are there for you. They don’t talk shit about you and they don’t start useless drama with you. Other people may think “oh she’s such a slut she always hangs out with guys”, but no. That doesn’t make you a slut, it’s because you’d rather be around people who are straight up with you rather than fake bitches. And they’ve rather spend their time having fun instead of wasting time gossiping and talking shit.

Ladies..

Ladies, never go for the guy who catches your eye, but go for the guy that captures your heart...

Guys don't even know i exist.

We mistake sex for romance.

— Amanda Helm - Ten things I learned before I turned twenty

1. When your friends ask you to hangout, and you don’t feel like it, don’t go. Don’t ever do things halfway or do something that makes you uncomfortable. With everything, give all of yourself, even the pieces you never knew existed.

2. It is okay to not know. Everyone always despises the phrase, “I don’t know” but no one tells you that it is okay to not know. The becoming is more important than the being, anyways.

3. If someone ever makes you feel less, in any way, you have every right to walk away. You have every right to cut out toxic people in your life. To close the door on people who make you feel bad about who you are or what you stand for. Friends don’t tear down, they build up.

4. Loss is always going to happen. Just like paint will always chip and rain will always fall, loss will always be part of life. No matter how much I don’t like it, or avoid it, it is going to walk my way at several times in my life. Learn to embrace it and learn to get closure.

5. Give yourself a chance. Stop saying, “I don’t think I can” or “But what if I am not able to?” and give yourself a chance. This may be cliche, but try to believe in yourself. When you get older, your knees won’t work the same and you won’t have the best memory, and you are going to wish you’d given yourself a chance years sooner.

6. Fall in love. Don’t be guarded before you fall in love. You could fall in love three times and still not find the right one, but none of it is going to make “the one” matter less. Don’t fall into that idea that your first love has to be your best love. Fall in love as many times as it naturally happens.

7. Firsts are going to be messy. First loves, first kisses, first dates, first failed tests, first college class, first time you drive a car, first time you ride a plane - first times were made to be imperfect. Just because it’s messy and all over the place, doesn’t mean it can’t be good or worthwhile.

8. You want another scoop of ice-cream? Go get it. Get three more scoops of ice-cream if that is what you want. “Fat” is not the opposite of beautiful and it is not the opposite of happy. Don’t let anyone tell you that your body type isn’t beautiful. Beauty is a social construct, create your own, become your own.

9. Let yourself be alone. Loneliness is not a bad thing. It is healthy and normal. Everyone needs to spend a good portion of their life alone. We learn who we are when we are alone; life is less crowded and more clear when we are alone.

10. If you aren’t happy where you are, change it. Quit your job, move, become a vegetarian, get a new hobby, pick up an old hobby, whatever you do - make sure it benefits you. Life is too short to not be alive, to not be passionate, and overflowing.

as a boy i can tell you this translation is 100% accurate

if a boy ever says “someone’s on their period” to you when your angry that is literally code for “punch me in the balls” so don’t hesitate

Conversation I heard in the club.

Shy Guy: Hey there..

Random Guy: Hey what's up?

Shy Guy: Nothing much, just wanted to say you are really cute.

Random Guy: Thanks dude!

Shy Guy: So, are you here with anyone?

Random Guy: Yeah, my girlfriend just went to the washroom.

Shy Guy: Oh God, I'm sorry, didn't know you were straight.

Random Guy: That's alright it's cool.

Shy Guy: You don't mind me calling you cute?

Random Guy: A compliment is a compliment no matter who it comes from.

So was he holding you?

oh mama!

Someone once asked me what my type was.

My answer was ‘fictional’.

I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry one girl.

I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry one girl.

Cause we’re resistent the whole way, until we meet one girl and we think: “I’d be an idiot if I didn’t marry this girl she’s so great.”

But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option or something. I know girls that married they’re like: “Oh he’s got a good job.”

I mean, they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who’s got a good job and is gonna stick around.

Girls want good guys,

Girls want good guys, 
but always 
end up 
falling 
for the 
wrong guy 
who says 
all 
the 
right 
things
.

Guys:

Protect her like your daughter, 

love her like your wife 

and respect her like your mother.

this was actually written by a guy

How i feel (yes ik it's a piece of shit)

Journal Entry: Wed Jun 8, 2011, 3:15 AM

This hole inside me is void of any emotions, it is hollow, but surrounding the void is feelings of great sadness, anger, and hurt. Tho not hurt as in physcial pain but as in my trust of people has been destroyed, this hurt is from having let someone deep behind the walls that had surrounded my heart. but they took my heart and shattered it to dust now it's gone and I don't know if I will ever get it back. I feel so alone and lost. I ask myself if maybe i desevered this for something I did in my past. All I know is I am normally I am a fighter that does not give up that fights til the end, but right now I have no fight in me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I been walking around like a zombie, or something without a head. I know drinking don't work, cutting is useless because lately I barely feel the pain now, drugs are out of my reach as is death at least for the time being.

Guy Facts | Girl Facts

this is so cute, but i wonder if its true :)

You're that guy.

i met a girl i like today,

Maybe a happy ending doesn’t include a guy,

Maybe a happy ending doesn’t include a guy, maybe it’s you on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on.

When a guy stares at you for long periods of time; he wishes you were his.

first and last girlfriend...